{"id":17234,"date":"2026-04-28T20:58:00","date_gmt":"2026-04-29T01:58:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/somoscristianos.org\/?p=17234"},"modified":"2026-04-28T18:54:19","modified_gmt":"2026-04-28T23:54:19","slug":"what-did-jesus-say-about-divorce","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/somoscristianos.org\/en\/what-did-jesus-say-about-divorce\/","title":{"rendered":"What did Jesus say about divorce?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>If this confuses you\u2026 you\u2019re not the only one.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Jesus said this:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cBut I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, makes her the victim of adultery, and anyone who marries a divorced woman commits adultery.\u201d (Matthew 5:32)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If you\u2019re honest\u2026 this sounds strong.<br>And the first impression is very clear:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>It seems like Jesus is saying there is only one valid reason for divorce.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Now, let\u2019s understand this clearly, without avoiding anything.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">In Jesus\u2019 time, people were already talking about divorce.<br>But not as something serious\u2026 it had become something easy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Many men used the law in Deuteronomy 24:1\u20134, where a certificate of divorce was permitted, to separate for almost any reason.<br>There were even debates about whether a man could divorce his wife over small things. For example, some interpreted that law so loosely that they considered it valid to divorce a wife if she \u201cdid not please him\u201d in some way, or even for something as simple as burning the food.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">So Jesus steps in and cuts that mindset at the root.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">He is not giving a complete list of all possible reasons.<br>He is correcting an abuse.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">That\u2019s why He mentions sexual immorality:<br>because it was a serious, clear, undeniable breaking of the marriage covenant.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">But here is where we need to be very clear:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Jesus is not teaching that a person must stay in a relationship where there is abuse, violence, or constant destruction.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">That\u2019s not interpretation\u2026 that\u2019s consistency with the whole message of the Bible.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">God never approves:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>someone being physically abused<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>someone being constantly humiliated<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>someone being emotionally or financially abandoned<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>someone living in fear inside their own home<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">That also destroys a marriage.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">And the Bible itself confirms it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">In 1 Corinthians 7:15, it says that if a person is abandoned, <strong>they are not bound<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">So no\u2026 everything does not come down to just one cause.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Now, let\u2019s not go to the other extreme either.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Jesus is also making something very clear:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Marriage is not disposable.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It\u2019s not something to end over:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>boredom<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>normal arguments<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>personality differences<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>difficult seasons<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">That also needs to be said plainly.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">So here is the full truth, clear and without confusion:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Jesus is closing the door to easy divorce<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>But He is not forcing anyone to live in abuse or destruction<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Marriage is sacred\u2026 but so are life and dignity<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If we put it in one simple idea:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Not every problem justifies divorce\u2026<br>but not every marriage should be maintained at any cost.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">And honestly\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">This verse is not meant to point fingers at others.<br>It\u2019s meant to make us reflect on how seriously we take what we promise.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Let me leave you with this thought\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Jesus didn\u2019t come to complicate your life\u2026<br>He came to lead you into the full truth.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">And the full truth is never unjust\u2026<br>even when it feels uncomfortable.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I invite you to pray with me:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Lord, teach me to understand Your Word with truth and balance.<br>Guard my heart from making careless decisions,<br>but also protect me from accepting what You do not approve.<br>Give me wisdom to live according to Your will.<br>Amen.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Jesus\u2019 words about divorce in Matthew 5:32 can feel strong and even confusing at first. Is He really saying there\u2019s only one valid reason? In this reflection, we look at the full context\u2014what the law in Deuteronomy actually said, how it was being misused, and what Jesus was truly correcting. A clear, honest message that avoids extremes and reveals both the seriousness of marriage and the heart of God for justice, dignity, and truth.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":12,"featured_media":17232,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"episode_type":"audio","audio_file":"","podmotor_file_id":"","podmotor_episode_id":"","cover_image":"","cover_image_id":"","duration":"","filesize":"","filesize_raw":"","date_recorded":"","explicit":"","block":"","itunes_episode_number":"","itunes_title":"","itunes_season_number":"","itunes_episode_type":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[2861,2842,2869],"tags":[2979,3650,3646,3611,3464,4378,3111,3473,3468,4045,3466,2976,4376,3171,3645],"series":[3039],"class_list":["post-17234","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-christian-life","category-featured_en","category-marriage","tag-bible","tag-biblicaltruth","tag-christianlife","tag-christianreflection","tag-christians","tag-divorce-2","tag-faith","tag-family","tag-god","tag-godslove","tag-hope","tag-jesus","tag-marriage","tag-wisdom","tag-wordofgod","series-somos-cristianos-reflexiones-diarias"],"episode_featured_image":"https:\/\/somoscristianos.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/Que-dijo-Jesus-acerca-del-divorcio.jpg","episode_player_image":"https:\/\/somoscristianos.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/logo-sc_red_original160px.png","download_link":"","player_link":"","audio_player":false,"episode_data":{"playerMode":"light","subscribeUrls":{"amazon":{"key":"amazon","url":"https:\/\/podcasters.amazon.com\/podcasts\/6e73db97-3f04-408e-9d35-fd4e33aab386","label":"Amazon","class":"amazon","icon":"amazon.png"},"apple_podcasts":{"key":"apple_podcasts","url":"https:\/\/podcastsconnect.apple.com\/my-podcasts\/show\/somos-cristianos-%E2%80%93-reflexiones-diarias-de-fe-y-vida\/974e0a64-92cf-4487-a0f4-ab30643d6813\/episodes","label":"Apple Podcasts","class":"apple_podcasts","icon":"apple-podcasts.png"},"deezer":{"key":"deezer","url":"https:\/\/www.deezer.com\/us\/show\/1002657781","label":"Deezer","class":"deezer","icon":"deezer.png"},"google_podcasts":{"key":"google_podcasts","url":"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/@SomosCristianos77\/podcasts","label":"Google Podcasts","class":"google_podcasts","icon":"google-podcasts.png"},"pandora":{"key":"pandora","url":"https:\/\/www.pandora.com\/podcast\/somos-cristianos-reflexiones-diarias-de-fe-y-vida\/PC:1001113906","label":"Pandora","class":"pandora","icon":"pandora.png"},"pocketcasts":{"key":"pocketcasts","url":"","label":"PocketCasts","class":"pocketcasts","icon":"pocketcasts.png"},"podcast_addict":{"key":"podcast_addict","url":"","label":"Podcast Addict","class":"podcast_addict","icon":"podcast-addict.png"},"podcast_de":{"key":"podcast_de","url":"","label":"Podcast.de","class":"podcast_de","icon":"podcast-de.png"},"spotify":{"key":"spotify","url":"https:\/\/open.spotify.com\/show\/2giZxrAdrZZwxeClZoNFoV","label":"Spotify","class":"spotify","icon":"spotify.png"},"stitcher":{"key":"stitcher","url":"https:\/\/www.stitcher.com\/show\/1113906","label":"Stitcher","class":"stitcher","icon":"stitcher.png"},"tunein":{"key":"tunein","url":"","label":"TuneIn","class":"tunein","icon":"tunein.png"},"yandex":{"key":"yandex","url":"","label":"Yandex","class":"yandex","icon":"yandex.png"},"youtube":{"key":"youtube","url":"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/@SomosCristianos77\/podcasts","label":"YouTube","class":"youtube","icon":"youtube.png"},"iheartradio":{"key":"iheartradio","url":"","label":"iHeartRadio","class":"iheartradio","icon":"iheartradio.png"},"ivoox":{"key":"ivoox","url":"https:\/\/www.ivoox.com\/podcast-somoscristianos-org_sq_f13111753_1.html","label":"iVoox","class":"ivoox","icon":"ivoox.png"}},"rssFeedUrl":"https:\/\/somoscristianos.org\/en\/feed\/podcast\/somos-cristianos-reflexiones-diarias","embedCode":"<blockquote class=\"wp-embedded-content\" data-secret=\"uBoL4kl0g6\"><a href=\"https:\/\/somoscristianos.org\/en\/what-did-jesus-say-about-divorce\/\">What did Jesus say about divorce?<\/a><\/blockquote><iframe sandbox=\"allow-scripts\" security=\"restricted\" src=\"https:\/\/somoscristianos.org\/en\/what-did-jesus-say-about-divorce\/embed\/#?secret=uBoL4kl0g6\" width=\"500\" height=\"350\" title=\"&#8220;What did Jesus say about divorce?&#8221; &#8212; SomosCristianos.org\" data-secret=\"uBoL4kl0g6\" frameborder=\"0\" marginwidth=\"0\" marginheight=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\" class=\"wp-embedded-content\"><\/iframe><script>\n\/*! 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